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Staying out of USUAL!


Would you mind if I put a few questions? What would you do to keep yourself away from the usual business of your life? What change would you bring in your life to feel different than your previous days?
Most of the people think if you change your usual lifestyle you would really become happier. However, most of the people do not take the necessary actions to shift from old to new. For instance, we including (me) go to office, work with papers, take directions, receive e-mails, ignore family, surf the web and talk politics as usual. Almost everyone of us thinks that changing this lifestyle would bring a new and fresh breath to your boring soul and almost none of us would dare to shorten office hours, give time to family, reduce unnecessary web surfing and etc. I believe the most destructive action in a usual life is the waste of time that has no positive effects on our future happiness. Even taking a weekend holiday has become a usual and habitual norm for many office goers. The mind of a person quickly gets used to those activities which are repeated and the more usual activities increase the more a human’s mind get accustomed with them, thus, creating a boring atmosphere which results in an unhappy life. So if you believe that breaking the shackles for good increases your chances of prosperity you may follow the following rules:
1-      Keep your mind out of usual business
2-      Take a creative and new action every weekend such as, writing an article, creating a blog.
3-      Family is always entertaining and spend more time with parents, wife or children.
4-      Spend more time on actions rather than ideas.

In the conclusion I would like to say that today I prepared myself to write this article and the result is obvious, I feel more confidant and happier than yesterday. It is an unbelievably surprising fact that changing yourself daily would bring daily prosperity and step by step success towards the biggest milestones.  

Be in constant rising, 
Khairuddin 

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